Check the base or retrieval feature
Read the product photos and care instructions together.
Find the external feature
Choose products made for anal use with a base or retrieval feature that prevents them slipping inside. Check its dimensions, how it connects to the strand, and whether it is intact. See Planned Parenthood’s sex toy safety guide.
Inspect joins and seams
Check joins and the retrieval feature for tears, loose parts or rough edges. If you can’t tell how a grip or base works from the listing, ask for a close-up before choosing it.
Stop if there is discomfort
Use adequate compatible lubricant and never force a product. Stop for pain or bleeding. If a toy is stuck or cannot be reached, seek medical care promptly.